It's one of the very first experiences of
transformation
ie it's one of their very first experiences of
being
transformed
ie of being whole and
complete
many
friends
have shared with me when we've talked quietly and intimately in the
way
friends
talk. It's an experience they describe as being (quote unquote)
"alone"
- that's not "lonely" but rather
"alone".
One of them went so far as to liken his experience to "living
in (his) own space station". I like this
analogy,
yet I have one reservation:
The
analogy
of living in one's own space station, if it's the experience of
being
transformed,
could convey a suggestion of being isolated, or cut off. I prefer
to suggest a different
context
for being
alone.
Try this on for size: when I articulate the experience as being
"alone",
the emphasis in my pronunciation imbues it with the possibility of
being "all ... one". I can say
transformation
is being "all ... one".
Listen:
clearly, by any stretch of the
imagination,
it would be a truly awesome accomplishment if you were living in
your own space station. In fact if you were living in space at all
ie if you were
being transformed,
and you were not living in your own space station,
you'd be in big
trouble.
And if you are living in space, look around you.
You may just start noticing there are many, many other people just
as accomplished as you, living
close
by in their own space stations near you.
Now, at the risk of being on the receiving end of some good natured
(and of some not so good natured) ribbing for any "space
cadet" and "rocket man" associations which
the analogy of global
transformation
as each of us living in our own space station, is sure to elicit, I
do like it. It teases out a model for a way of being which is
really apropos these
Conversations For
Transformation.
We are, both as the whole
human
species and also as the entire
human
family, totally interdependent on each other, yes? There are many
ways to
view
the possibility of this interdependence. One way you could
view
the possibility of this interdependence, is as if it were an
interdependence of individuals who aren't independent
ie as an interdependence of individuals who don't (yet) experience
themselves as being whole and
complete.
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