Conversations For Transformation: Essays Inspired By The Ideas Of Werner Erhard

Conversations For Transformation

Essays By Laurence Platt

Inspired By The Ideas Of Werner Erhard

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Connecting Across Party Lines

Napa Valley, California, USA

October 2, 2026



This essay, Connecting Across Party Lines, is the companion piece to Runaway Train.



This conversation is a conversation we don't have often enough. In fact we'd rather not have it at all. It's just too arduous. We avoid it as much as we can. Whenever possible, we ignore it altogether, sweeping it under the rug. It's a conversation that goes something like this:

The amount of money we spend on war and militrary conflict in any given timeframe is staggering, easily surpassing many times over the amount we spend on food, housing and medical care for those who need it most. In these United States, it's a top priority, justifying appropriations of vast  sums of money for war and military conflict. More than justifying it, it's believed there'll be a return on the investment - in spades. It's a capricious notion that's literally beyond belief. It's justified as necessary for our survival even though  the defenses we already have, deter any real threat against us.

You may not know the exact cost of bread and eggs at your local supermarket unless you went there and looked at the price tags. You may not know the exact cost of cars at your local dealership unless you went there and looked at the sticker labels. But there's one thing that we all know the cost of, and that's the cost of war and military conflict. What there is to say about that, is this:

It's not just the bad guys who wage war, and the good guys who try to end it. To be clear, war and military conflict aren't aberrations of being human. On the contrary, they're an intrinsic aspect of human nature. In the greater scheme of things, clearly there's a place for war and military conflict, for the Zen of it all, and for the persistence of it in our species' DNA  (DeoxyriboNucleic Acid). Our DNA is programmed for survival, which defines us as a warring, conflicting species. The DNA of a warring, conflicting species is built in to our machinery. While we may not know what we'll pay for bread, eggs, and cars, what we know (speaking practically in dollars and cents) about what we spend on military conflict, is this: we spend an enormous  amount of money on it, TOO MUCH, waaay ... too ... much, ... even more than is needed ...  That's how much we spend on war and military conflict.

It's not only that there's no equitable return on investment that renders the enormous amount of money spent on war and military conflict, as untenable. It's that the real return on the investment and a massive payoff, will come when our spending is directed at all of us  ie at all of us on the planet, rather than on them  - which is to say, on whomever we perceive our enemies to be, accurately or not. And what that calls for is not just a change in how we think about war and military conflict, but rather a transformation of the entire thinking process itself. Werner's work isn't directed at solving war and military conflict per se. It's directed at the way we perceive them / think about them ie at that which appears to make the financial benefits of waging war viable.

You woulda thunk that by now we would have figured out how to live together instead of fighting each other. I'm not a "peace and love" kind of guy, even though I admire those who are. I'm not a "kum ba yah" folkie either, even though I admire those who are. My inquiry doesn't originate there. My inquiry isn't into the morality of the issues plaguing war and military conflict. To purport to bring an end to war and military conflict by debating its moral issues, is ineffective, compared to confronting the vast sums of money they require - which, by the same token, represents the vast sums of money which making life work for everyone on the planet, is deprived of. Collectively, we understand and aspire to money, more than to both morality and workability (to borrow from a widely-held sentiment: "Money talks, morality walks" - from the original "Money talks, BS walks.").

I have no blueprint for solving this frighteningly persistent problem. I do, however, notice a central tenet in our thinking which I assert is demonstrably "off" and which, if examined, would make a profound and lasting difference. It's this (from some of Werner's most central ideas): we regard the world as a "you or me"  world ie as an "us vs them"  world, when we could regard it as a "you and me"  world, or a "you and I"  world, or an "all of us"  world. We're living in a "you and me" world, running it (or trying to run it) by the rules of a "you or me" world. What could possibly go wrong? ... go wrong? ... go wrong? ...

It takes a certain something, a je ne sais quoi  to connect across party lines, and to distinguish a "you and me" world for everyone, regardless of political persuasion, and then to distinguish a "you or me" world, and then to distinguish the rules for running a "you or me" world, and then to notice that we're trying to run a "you and me" world by the rules of a "you or me" world. That teases out transformative* thinking. It's been shown to transform the entire thinking process with regard to the viability of a "you and me" world.


*  Transformational or transformative?

transformational: pertaining to  transformation

transformative: causing  transformation

Citation: wikidiff


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