After speaking with more
people,
family,
friends, colleagues ie all those whose
opinions
they trust who have experienced it and recommended it to them,
their erstwhile skeptical positions soften to the point where they
accept it produces something remarkable ... but ...
they'll say they've "already got it" and so they don't need it /
it's not for them ("I'm happy for you" they say condescendingly,
even though they start seeing it may just produce what
graduates
say it does). "It's possible" they'll concede "but it's not worth
doing" even though "needing" transformation isn't a factor (no one
needs it,
it won't fix or change
anything).
As often happens,
something shifts
in the lives of skeptics (in my case, it was becoming aware of the
repetitive, unproductive patterns in my life which drain my
alacrity) and they see something personal and profound which they
would gain from experiencing it. So they register - still
skeptical, yet more open and willing to try it to see what all the
enthusiasm is about, after which the most vociferous skeptics
famously become enthusiasts (moi aussi) at which point
they'll recommend it widely, and claim "I said it was a good
idea all along.".
Look: it's natural to be somewhat skeptical of transformation.
Being skeptical of transformation is proof positive that your
defense mechanisms work. You really don't have to do a lot to
ensure your defense mechanisms work. They're all
on full
automatic
anyway. It will however call for a bigger, more courageous view and
way of being
to avail youself of all the possibilities of being transformed.
Sir Arthur C (Charles) Clarke, the British inventor, futurist, and
author
(2001:
A Space Odyssey) articulated his Law of Revolutionary
Ideas which states that every revolutionary idea (in
science, politics,
art,
or whatever) (including producing transformation?) seems to evoke
these three stages of reaction:
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"It's completely impossible. Don't waste my time."
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2)
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"It's possible but it's not worth doing."
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3)
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"I said it was a good idea all along."
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