Conversations For Transformation: Essays Inspired By The Ideas Of Werner Erhard

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Curveballs

Napa Valley, California, USA

September 15, 2023



"Sometimes life throws curveballs. That doesn't mean the game is over." ... Laurence Platt

This essay, Curveballs, is the companion piece to It was conceived and written at the same time as Difficult People Occur As Difficult: The Occurring World.




Photography courtesy Letts of London
Letts of London classic A5 "Day to a Page" diary
I live by my schedule. I write down what needs to get done in a Letts of London  classic A5 "Day to a Page" diary. It is a script from which I act in life's play. I eschew a digital repository for my schedule. Pencil and paper works well even if they harken to a bygone era. Although everything that I need to get done is written in my diary, there is still plenty of unscheduled time with which to be spontaneous. And three months or so from now, I've got not much scheduled at all.

An accomplished colleague of mine keeps a schedule too. But hers is a very different order of schedule than mine. How so, Laurence? For one, if you want to know what she'll be doing ten years from now, it's in her schedule. Two, whereas my schedule's slots are mostly a half hour to an hour's duration, her schedule for the next ten years comprises fifteen minute slots. In other words, she's already scheduled what she'll be doing in quarter hour increments for the next ten years. Now before you go on a tear about that being the antithesis of being spontaneous, consider being spontaneous is largely a matter of being creative. So rather than delay being creative until the mood strikes, she's scheduled the time to be creative ... in quarter hour increments ... for the next ten years. So much for the antithesis of being spontaneous.

One day I happened to notice her calendar open on her desk. While it was none of my business, I couldn't help but see it. Every quarter hour slot for the next ten years was annotated and color coded ... every one that is, except for a few dispersed throughout the page which were un-annotated and un-colored. What were they? "What is with all the empty white slots?" I inquired. "Oh, those? They're in case of curveballs.". Curveballs? I'm sports-illiterate. I had to look it up.

From the Cambridge International Dictionary:

<quote>
Definition
curveballs

noun, plural
from the noun (singular) curveball

in the sport of baseball, a throw in which the ball curves as it moves toward the player with the bat; something such as a question or event that is surprising or unexpected, and therefore difficult to deal with
<unquote>

A-Ha!  So that's  what she meant by "curveballs": she was referring to all those various surprises, unexpected interruptions, breakdowns etc (as in baseball, unpredictable pitches which are fiendishly hard to hit) that occur in life, none of which are ordinarily scheduled which in turn exacerbates their surprises, interruptions, breakdowns, and sheer inconvenience when they do occur. And as we all know, they do occur. Oh Boy, I got it! And I got how brilliant she is scheduling time ahead of time for curveballs. Look: there's always something, right? So why not plan for it ahead of time? That way, not if but when  the curveballs are thrown, they're already scheduled, so they're not 100% interruptions. And if none are thrown, she's got extra time at her disposal, a boon to her very full schedule. It's an approach that smoothes out the surprises, interruptions, and breakdowns which arise when curveballs are invariably thrown.

Just imagine that: scheduling time to be interrupted!  Look: if I've scheduled time to be interrupted, am I really interrupted when I'm interrupted?  That's not just playing with semantics (and listen: even if it were, it's all  semantics). It harkens to filing my incompletions in a manila folder labeled "COMPLETE INCOMPLETIONS". That way, my incompletions are complete, and I'm free to be and free to act. You could say I've recontextualized  (I love  that word) surprises, interruptions, and breakdowns aka curveballs, and incompletions - indeed, and that is the subject for another conversation on another occasion.



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