Conversations For Transformation: Essays Inspired By The Ideas Of Werner Erhard

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Essays By Laurence Platt

Inspired By The Ideas Of Werner Erhard

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Do It For Nothing

Exertec Health and Fitness Center, Napa, California, USA

Fourth of July, 2009

This essay, Do It For Nothing, is the fourth in a group of sixteen written on the Fourth Of July:
  1. Anticipation: Accounting For An American Love Affair
  2. Independence Day
  3. I'd Rather Be With Me
  4. Do It For Nothing
  5. The Only Way Out Is Through
  6. Under All Circumstances
  7. Word Power
  8. When There's Nothing To Say
  9. The Possibility Of Being Independent And Free
  10. Intimacy In A Crowded Place
  11. What Goes On Internally
  12. Imprints Of Love
  13. Bookends: A Reflection On Mortality
  14. Come Back To Being
  15. Nobody Is Responsible Except You
  16. Like A Monk In A Cave
in that order.

I am indebted to Nassrin Haghighat who inspired this conversation, and to Bruce Terrell who contributed material.

There's never a worse  time or a better  time to share yourself. There's never a worse place  or a better place  to share yourself. It's always now  (what better time is there?); it's always here  (what better place is there?), and you're already yourself. If it's a good  time to share yourself, then share yourself. If it's a bad  time to share yourself, then it's a really a good time to practice sharing yourself in bad times, so share yourself. When you've mastered sharing yourself in bad  times, then the bad times are good. So even the bad times are good for sharing yourself (as Brian Poole may have said).

You may not get anything in return for sharing yourself. There's no guarantee you will. And you may. But you don't need anything in return to validate or to reward sharing yourself. Sharing yourself is its own validation and its own reward. If you have it that it requires getting something in return to validate or to reward sharing yourself, then sharing yourself that way is arguably inauthenticity  ie it's not what it appears to be - it's more likely closer akin to manipulation  than it is to sharing.

Share yourself regardless of whether you anticipate you'll get anything in return, or not. That's not to be taken as encouragement nor as a motivational directive  but rather as a clarification:  it's just what's so about what it takes to really  share yourself ie what it takes to make available who you really are. Once you start manipulating the environment to make it conducive to sharing yourself before you start sharing yourself, once you start bargaining with circumstance  to make it easier to be who you really are, something is imposed which effectively obfuscates  being who you really are.

Listen:  this doesn't eschew authentic occasions for manipulating the environment and bargaining with circumstance. Nor does it suggest transformation requires renouncing profit, not profiting at all, or retiring to a monastery and giving up all your worldly possessions. Rather, it points to the "Go!"  switch for sharing yourself as totally distinct from  environment, circumstance, and profit.
Werner Erhard says "If you don't take it out into the world, you didn't get it in the first place.". Transformation is only useful when it's taken out into the world. In life you can be who you really are, and you can profit - both. But if you're being who you really are only in order to  profit, something is blurred  which effectively stops the authentic expression of who you really are. Do it for nothing. Share yourself in order to share yourself  ... for no other reason. If you must  have a reason for sharing yourself, try this: share yourself because you say  you'll share yourself ... for no other reason.

Sharing yourself isn't a function of feeling good. Beware of having whenever you feel good, as the only good time to share yourself. Sharing yourself isn't a function of having your act together. Beware of having whenever you've got your act together, as the only good time to share yourself. Really sharing yourself is an act of intention - anytime, under any circumstances. As a matter of fact, there's really no other way  to share yourself unless it's done intentionally ie an act of intention.

Share yourself with anyone and everyone. Share yourself with those you consider to be enlightened  (which, by the way, is called preaching to the choir)  and equally with those you consider to be unenlightened. See if you're thrown  to share yourself less readily with those you consider to be unenlightened. See if you can distinguish your judgement in the matter (which, by the way, is really a form of prejudice). What, for example, does your judging machinery tell you about those it considers to be unenlightened? Notice whether you have it that your judging machinery is accurate in its assessment, or not.

Share yourself regardless of whether you get love back or not. See if you can distinguish whether or not you only share yourself when you know you'll get love back. See if you can distinguish whether or not if you've determined in advance you won't get love back, then you'll back off from sharing yourself.

Share yourself as an act of intention in order to share yourself as an act of intention. No other reason. No other validation. No other reward. Do it for nothing.

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