A friend of mine expresses concern about inviting some friends of hers
to attend one of Werner's guest events because she's convinced one
friend in particular will immediately assume she's joined a cult.
Well? What if her friend does assume she's joined a cult?
Well, what if? And: so what?!
Standing where I stand in
transformation
I can get how her friend standing in no
transformation
may have the
interpretation
she's joined a cult. The issue then becomes: can she be big enough to
allow her friend to have her
interpretation?
Then she's not diminished, and her friend experiences being heard.
Living Life out of a fixed
interpretation
enables us to survive. Her friend living Life out of a fixed
interpretation
she's joined a cult enables her to survive. You could say by living
Life out of a fixed
interpretation
her friend is missing an incredible opportunity. But then again, when
we live Life out of fixed
interpretations
we always miss incredible opportunities. That's true for everyone - no
one is immune.
By the way, if you're going to be sharing
transformationlike a possibility for any real length of time, one thing
I can promise you is sooner or later, you're going to have to confront
the "cult"
interpretation.