"It's
New
Year's day!" she
said
excitedly, "it's a
wholenewbeginning.".
"Why limit yourself?" I
asked
playfully. "What do you
mean?"
she
questioned
defensively. "There's a
wholenewbeginning
for you for the taking, every day of the year like a
possibility
(and even more frequently if you want it)" I explained
openly.
"But
New
Year's day is special. It's a
newbeginning
to make
new
resolutions" she responded challengingly. "That's because we declared
it so" I
saidpatiently.
"It's the start of a
new
year and a symbol of a
newbeginning
because we declared it so. And you can declare a
newbeginning
for yourself any
time
and any day you like.".
"I'm not so sure about that" she
shared
guardedly, "doesn't that take all the specialness out of
it? What about Christmas?" she
inquired,
"what about Deepavali, the Festival of
Light?
what about Passover? and Easter? and Kwanzaa?". "Our traditions,
rituals, symbols, and legends are very, very precious to us" I
suggested, "and there's no
cause
to denigrate them. That
said,
what's always
useful
is every
now
and then to re-examine our traditions and the rituals and symbols and
legends which comprise them, and then
see
what they look like when
newlyviewed
inside of a re-examined
context.".
"You
say
there's no
cause
to denigrate them. But isn't your suggestion the very
definition of denigration?" she argued. "By not accepting
them
fundamentally
and exactly as they are, you're not affording them the respect they
deserve as the
sacred
symbols they are.". "To the contrary" I replied,
"reviewing
and
renewing
the
context
in which something special occurs ie in which it
shows up
for us,
honors
the content. It may actually enhance it too. And what's more, in so
doing, it may even reveal and rehabilitate its
source's
originalintention
which, over
time,
may have
gotten
lost.".
We live in
a world
of
self-created
traditions, rituals, symbols, and legends. That, in and of itself,
isn't a call for
trouble.
Creativity
after all, in and of itself, is a revered
quality among
human beings.
The
trouble
only
begins
when over
time,
we forget the symbols we
createdaren't
real
- or, restated with
rigor,
we forget the symbols we
createdare not that which they represent. Then the
trouble
is exacerbated when we
relate
to symbols and deal with them as if they are that which
they represent. When what's
real
is relegated to second place behind the symbols we
created
to represent it, which we then
relate
to and deal with as if they're
real,
having forgotten it's we who
created
them in the first place, the
trouble
is compounded and manifests, and an ill wind blows in
the land.
Definition
ill
adjective
of inferior
worth
or ability; unskillful; inexpert
<unquote>
<un-aside>
We have symbols for the birth of (coming into awareness of) the
human spirit
/
human being.
We have symbols for the illumination of
human being.
We have symbols for crossing over (if you will) from who we
think
we are, to
who we really are.
We have symbols for the
victory
and the ascension (ie for the re-birth) of
human being.
And we have symbols which represent our
origins
/ where we come from, and our unification as
human being.
There's
nothing wrong
with any of them.
Nothing.
Indeed, all our traditions, rituals, symbols, and legends represent
human beings'
ongoing
love affair
with
who we really are,
and our attempts to re-format our lives in both astute and
beautiful
terms (also sometimes included in this list are our attempts to
re-format our lives in
meaningful
terms - but that's a subject for another
conversation
on another occasion). There's only (and always)
trouble
when the symbols we
create
become confused with and obfuscate that which they represent.
But it's more than that. It's waaay more. We have symbols
for
wealth,
we have symbols for
success,
we have symbols for
love,
we have symbols for trustworthiness, we have symbols for what's
acceptable, we have symbols for what's not acceptable ... the
list goes on and on.
Trouble
always follows
relating
to symbols as that which they represent. And the
trouble
is compounded by the even more pernicious issue, which is we don't
remember we're
relating
to symbols as that which they represent.
"Now,
with all that
clearly
distinguished, and out in the
open,
and on the table and in full
view,
Happy
New
Year!" I
said
to her warmly. "Thank You. And Happy
New
Year to you too" she reciprocated accurately.