"People are usually more convinced by reasons they discovered
themselves than by those found out by others."
... Blaise Pascal, mathematician, inventor,
writer,
philosopher
The
whole
idea here is to share an experience. When I say that, I'm not entirely
certain it can even be shared this
way.
Discovering whether or not it can be done, is at best a continuing
work in progress
for me. This is, after all, the
writtenword
and not the
spokenword.
And the
medium
for
communicatingtransformation
(which is to say the
medium
for
communicating
the experience of
transformation
and not a discourse about it), is the
spokenword
not the
writtenword.
Now
why
is it this
way?
It just is this
way.
That said, I suppose there
could
be a logical explanation. But so much
would
be lost in delivering it, as to make any explanation
counter-productive. The thing I want to keep in
mind
is: the
end-game
here is the experience of
transformation
not its explanation.
Listening
for this distinction is what keeps me
straight.
More than that, the domain in which you and I experience
transformation
is a domain other than the domain in which we explain
transformation.
If you're not keeping your wits about you, it's likely that the very
act of explaining
transformation,
will
entrap
you into forfeiting your experience of
transformation.
That's the catch-22 right there. The
writtenword
is at best a
close
approximation to the
spokenword.
But it's the
spokenword
however, which is the
authenticmedium
for
transformation.
And therein lies the confront in
writing
anything purported to be appropriate to such a grandiose title as
"Conversations For
Transformation".
Given this is what I'm
writing,
I'm confronted by it ongoingly ie I'm always up against it.
This is my
laboratory
(so to
speak).
I don't know of any other place to
work
in which it's likely to go better.
And that's really all I do. Life and
the world
looks a certain
waystanding
on a
platform
of the experience of
transformation
(or coming from the experience of
who we really are
- if you will). It looks totally different
standing
in the milieu of the circumstances of our lives.
Discovering how to differentiate between these two, is maybe the
essential component of the process of
transforming
your life. As long as this distinction remains undiscovered,
transformation
isn't and can't be a living possibility.
It's all I can do to
writethese conversations
I am, in a
way
which is faithful to this experience so that their
words
track the same brain patterns for you when you read them, as they track
for me when I
write
them, and in that
way
convey the same experience. This is risky
business.
It may succeed or become a fiasco. Actually I'm not focused on either
outcome. My
intent
is to
write
them. That's all. They are what they are. These
conversations
will
speak
to you for themselves. Or they won't. Really.