I'm clear about your acknowledgement. "Thank You" and "You're Welcome". Really. Mostly I'm clear about your generosity. Generosity? When we have an intimate relationship with another human being, that relationship is often off limits, private, and its intimacy sacrosanct. Yet for the most part, you allow me to speak to your intimate relationship with Werner. That's generosity.
Furthermore I'm clear that's why these Conversations For Transformation are successful - and by that I mean why, for the most part, they work. They work not because there's anything special about Laurence or about things I say, but because they speak to people's relationship with Werner. Perhaps it's "just me", but I'm willing to bet hard cash that "people's relationship with Werner" includes everyone - people who already have a relationship with Werner, as well as people who resist having one and / or people who are yet to discover they already have one.
I've got my own thoughts about why people get what they get from being around Werner ie my own thoughts about how transformation is communicated - none of which, by the way, are necessarily "The Truth" just because I think them. Having said that, what's always interested me about this is the way people, when they're around Werner, don't become more like Werner: no, instead they become more like themselves. To me that demonstrates an incredible trust, a profound unimaginable intimacy. What allows for this? ie what could possibly allow for this, I wondered. So I asked him (what better way is there to find out?). I asked "More people trust you being more intimate with them than anyone else in history. Why do so many people open to you so deeply, so fully, so freely?". After a quiet moment, he replied
BEST TO ASK THEM. BUT, MY SENSE OF WHAT IS SO ABOUT THIS IS THAT THEY SOMEHOW SENSE OR KNOW THAT FOR ME THEY ARE OK THE WAY THEY ARE AND THAT I AM PASSIONATELY COMMITTED TO THE POSSIBILITY THAT THEY ARE.
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